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Go Gina: Preparation vs Perfectionism, Discomfort and Growth, Self-Discipline and Boundaries

“It works for me, it works for me” has been my motto since the beginning of time. But is it working for you, or is it a distraction from...

Chapter 27: The Chrysalis and The Seed: Embracing Transformation, Grief, Forgiveness, Mid-Year Check-In🥀💐

These past 8 1/2 months I have been focusing on slow progression, learning when to take breaks, allowing myself to experience and...

Hey Siri, play “them changes” by thundercat: relationships, grief, self forgiveness & more

Awe, weren’t we cute? Your favorite exes. Ah, 2017 what a time to be alive. I wanted to say that my life's been downhill ever since but...

From my archives: Fun Girl

We’ve all known or been the “Fun Girl”. The girl who’s always being seen, but never being seen as enough. The girl who's always so...

Where do we go from here?

From the death of Nipsey Hussle, to the Jussie Smollet scandal, to finding out 21 Savage was British. 2019 has been a lot...No pun...

The Joceless Romantic

When men approach me I always have a series of comebacks that may or may not answer the question they asked. The response is always witty...

Oh, so you TOXIC TOXIC?

I box all toxic behaviors and toxic men in the same category on first exhibit. I have this program set in my mind that if he exhibits...